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What Our Readers Think: Public vs. Private Schools
Readers tell their preference for public vs. private schools, based on their personal experiences.
Readers express very personal reactions to our article: Private vs. Public Schools: What’s the Difference? Some favor public schools, others choose private. Several readers attended both types of schools and weigh the pros and cons.

In favor of public schools

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From Virginia:
"Public school helped me to be more independent, and not rely on others. Also there is a good diversity at my school."

In favor of private schools
From Wisconsin:
"I think private school teaches you better morals, and you are just in a better environment, and what I have seen, is that kids from private school are more educated from private schools."

It all depends on the student’s needs.
From California:
"The rule of thumb in our school district is that private school is best suited for those who require a great deal of hand-holding."

It all depends on the quality of the particular school.
From Missouri:
"I attended public and parochial schools and currently have children in both. Every area is different and there is even a huge disparity in the quality of education between schools within the same district. I found that a good foundation is the answer for us. My oldest is a senior in public and is excelling in his work, but attribute that to the foundation he received in a Lutheran school through 8th grade. My youngest attends an Assembly of God Private school in 4th grade and there's no comparing him academically. I am incredibly involved in both schools and believe that this is key to any child's success - whichever route you choose."

From Washington:
"I went to public schools, was homeschooled, and went to private schools, not necessarily in that order. The quality of education is dependent on the particular school, not where the funding comes from.

"The best schools I went to were public schools. The idea that being privately funded makes a school better is ridiculous. What makes a school better is the background and dedication of the teachers and administrators and the background of the students.

"By the way, although requirements vary from state to state, most states require (at least at the secondary level) that teachers have a degree in the content area they teach, rather than a generalist education degree, for certification. In my state, since public schools generally spend a larger portion of their budget on teacher salaries and mandated maximum class sizes are low, public schools usually attract more qualified, more professional, more experienced teachers.

"The difference from state to state, district to district, and school to school can be great. In my state, where public schools are (in most districts) excellent, private schools are largely populated by students who have been expelled from the public schools for behavior problems. In a neighboring state, where public schools are overwhelmed by unruly students and grossly underfunded, private schools are populated largely by those wishing to escape the conditions at the public schools.

"We are considering sending our daughter to private school, so that she can avoid dealings with out-of-ontrol students. Although her teachers would not be as good in private school, they would be able to focus more of their time and energy on teaching, with less wasted on behavior management."

March 2006

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08/26/2008:
"Our public high schools spit out Governor's scholars, National Merit finalists, as well as kids winning full scholarships to Harvard, MIT, and other state schools around the country. Private or Catholic schools, at least locally, can't come close the the education given in our public high school. We teach everyone, even kids with problems. All are welcome."

08/26/2008:
"I'm so tired of hearing that only private/parochial schools have morals. It is true that there were 12 pregnant girls over a 6 year period in our public high school. But, what you don't hear from the 2 local catholic schools is that 2/3 of those girls transferred from their schools. Unlike the forgiveness that Jesus teaches, Catholic schools just kick them out to save their statistics (they keep the pedophile priests though). Morals are learned at home."

08/25/2008:
"Morally bankrupt opinions in society who currently prevail are the reason I chose a 'Christian' school. And of course it is also referred to as a 'private' school. Today's accepted culture permits a rubber stamp approval for anyone and everything, but I choose to provide for my children the Leader who has their best interests in His sights. Him. "

08/22/2008:
"Two of my three sons went to Private High School and they all went to Parochial ELementary Schools. My youngest child who is in Public High School now is very lazy, very unmotivated and has several problems with time management. He does not even care whether he graduates or not. His teachers are well qualified and experienced but have no time to deal with slower children. After-school is of not much help since the class is very confining after a long day and the teachers do not want to teach, they're just there to baby sit and supervise homework which the slow kids do not get to complete. They are not dedicated and the commitment is not there. They only need the extra pay. Private school teachers work for every penny they earn. They incorporate patience and caring about a child's success into the school's curricula."

08/19/2008:
"To the person who left a comment on 6/2/08 about private schools being filled with ONLY babied, rich kids, you are terribly WRONG in your assumption; such narrow-mindedness for a parent! My husband was a product of Catholic school as well as his brothers. The 3 of them continued to be successful private school students even after their father abandoned their mother midway through their 4th, 5th & 6th grades. They were far from being spoiled!! Please! They had to learn quickly about how real the world was! I can't believe this phenomenol woman raised her 3 boys alone & did that all on her own as a HARD-WORKING SINGLE mom... but then again this was over 30 years ago. I guess its more expensive now. I have been in public schools my whole life. I believe it is the parents' choice where they want to send their child. Since my daughter will be going into Kindergarten next fall, I am starting now to do my research. I am not finding too many positive reviews regarding many public sc! hools in my school district which is disappointing but there is a private school that has received some great reviews, I'm still deciding. Either way, no one can tell me I didn't do my homework!!!"

08/13/2008:
"Well, let's just tell the truth here! Private schools allow the parent, who can afford it, to have control over the morals, beliefs and associations they want for their child(ren). Public Schools can and do provide these same desires, but requiresthat the parent play a very, hands-on, active role in their childs academic and extra-cirricular experience in the public school arena. I have a 15 year-old daughter in 10th grade and a 10 year-old son in 5th, both in public schools and they are high-achievers and do well on the CRCT and other tests. How you may ask? I play an active role in the school, I let the teachers know I care and that their work is not in vain, at least with mine. So, I believe less hands on, but a solid interests in ones child works well in the private setting, but is paramount for parents to be involved in the public school."

08/13/2008:
"Private schools and public schools just can't really be compared on the same meterstick by most families. Why? Simply because many families don't have the disposable income to even consider private schools. I've been to both (albeit both public schools have been academic magnet schools), and I have definitely preferred my public schools. Conversely, I have friends who only lasted one year in public school before running back to their old private schools. Simply put, do what's practical, not only for your kids, but for yourselves."

08/11/2008:
"I believe that a public school is needed to help a child develop and learn how to deal with others. Additionally, private schools tend to be too loving and caring. Loving and caring is not a bad thing, but unless the child stays within a rather safe area all his/her life, they will not be ready for the real world."

08/11/2008:
"I believe that a public school is needed to help a child develop and learn how to deal with others. Additionally, private schools tend to be too loving and caring. Loving and caring is not a bad thing, but unless the child stays within a rather safe area all his/her life, they will not be ready for the real world."

08/11/2008:
"In choosing public or private, it depends on what is available in your area. It is sad that many parents spend more time buying their next car than they do really investigating all of the options. It is also sad that many parents have the attitude that 'public school was good enough for me, it is good enough for them'. They don't even spend the time to research how much public education has changed since they went to school. With so much at stake, take the time to investigate all the options."

07/28/2008:
"In moving and looking at other schools it makes me sick to think my 5 year old will get shot down if he tries to pray before his meals, so I will search and find a private school so morals and goodness is part of the ciriculum!"

07/28/2008:
"I believe that in most cases public education is good (although city schools and some smaller rural schools may not be). However, ultimately those kids who succeed are those who want to and put in the extra mile (or miles) to achieve academic success. Paying for an education doesn't make it better. In fact, it's a waste if your child isn't that dedicated"

07/25/2008:
"Private school teachers are more often masters of the fields they teach. "

07/24/2008:
"I attended and graduated from a private school. I was never more glad than when I attended college in another state and found that many students who were educated in public schools had no knowledge of basic concepts. For example, some of them did not know what a noun was or any punctuation. For some of them, vocabulary was not at what a college freshman level should be. Whatever you choose, you need to be a good role model for your children. Their success is not just theirs, but yours as well."

07/18/2008:
"Most teachers, whether at public or private schools, are dedicated to helping children. I think that most disparity arises from children's home situations. Teachers need strong support from parents, and students need to be hearing at home that education is important. If students and parents dedicate themselves to learning, they will be successful no matter what kind of school they are at. "

07/16/2008:
"private is my choice."

07/16/2008:
"dont be judgemental of private school kids! that's extremely rude & disrespectful. Everyones an opinion, & that doesn't mean that only YOURS is right! so many people say that private school kids are spoiled, & thats just showing that you criticize. be nice to everyone! no matter what they think.. that's what my PRIVATE SCHOOL education has TAUGHT ME!!!!!!!!"

07/15/2008:
"Private! Private! Private! I'm going into 8th grade and I'm so glad that I go there. I feel so comfortable being there and I've learned so much. My friends are the best, although I do have a lot of friends from public schools. Whenever I talk to my public school friends about what they've learned and compare it to what I've learned- I feel that I'm about 2 years older in education than them. The teachers get paid so little, and I know that that means they really want to be there instead of getting paid so much for wild children. If you want respectful, mature, responsible, caring children, then GO PRIVATE!"

07/14/2008:
"The reason why private schools don't have the behavioral problems that public schools do is that private schools can just say, 'Hey, we don't want your kid here'. Whereas public schools have to accept everyone and give them a chance to learn and to better themselves, not just a certain 'chosen few'. If a child misbehaves in private schools enough, he will no longer attend that school. Simple as that. Public schools have the kids who don’t want to be there, parents who aren’t involved, anger management kids, etc. and they have to teach them anyway (plus the other kids) and do a mighty fine job of it too. I have been to both, and I would chose public BECAUSE I felt I was taught better and there were better extra curricular activities. Not only are the sports teams generally better the clubs and band programs are too. They can compete at higher levels and attend more events. One reason I really hated private schools was the lack of diversity. There was one 'type'. You couldn't truly be yourself because of dress codes and the fear of being kicked out. "

07/3/2008:
"Parents who have a choice between public and private schools should also consider these questions: 1) Am I confident of my child's intelligence and my own parenting? If the answer is yes, you know that your child will do probably fine anywhere, especially if you stay involved. 2) Do I care about how my choice affects the big picture? One of the reasons public schools fail is because educated, skilled, and involved parents have abandoned the school system. These parents not only can provide stability and guidance to school communities, but their students can bring up test scores for the whole school. 3) What kinds of experiences do you want for your child? Academic achievement is important, but developing a level of comfort with diversity and the social skills for dealing with difference is more and more important in our changing world. Clearly there are trade-offs. But I've seen some amazing things happen in my own public school district when parents take a chance, and work together. "

06/19/2008:
"From (the DC Metro) Maryland: I am heading to the 10th grade this fall, and I am all for private schools. Where I am from, the public schools are only one notch above hell. Sometimes the private schools aren't much better, but at least there I am guaranteed to be at least one grade level ahead of my eers (which I have discovered is the case, during my six-week stay in public schools six years ago). I've been two private Christian schools and two secular ones affliated with NAIS, and I definitely enjoyed the latter more than the former. With the NAIS schools at least, I have been exposed to incredible curriculums, extra curriculars that are a parent's dream, and have been encouraged to grow and seek my own path. While I realize that some are honestly not cut out for private schools (two of my classmates hated it and are transfering back to public school), no one can deny the superior quality (in the majority) of private education."

06/13/2008:
"Biggest mistake in my life as a parent was allowing one of my daughters to attend a public school for grades 6 - 8. Even in Minnesota which has generally good public schools they don't hold a candle to private schools which are far better across the board! Oh by the way I went to both public and private myself. Public high school was O.K. at best and I went to one of the 'elites.' but at my Catholic High School I was offered- and took -5 languages in 3 different alphabets in my sophomore year. I doubt that many publics even offer that. Also my mother was a public school teacher who constantly felt that 'at public schools you are forced to go as fast as the SLOWEST ship in the convoy!' Yep that's why she took her salary and sent me and my siblings to the better schools. (P.S. for those who might wonder the languages were English, Latin and French in the Roman alphabet, Greek in the Greek alphabet and Russian in Cyrillic alphabet.)"

06/10/2008:
"Morality can't be legislated and it surely isn't taught in public schools which is why we send our children to a Private Christian school. Perhaps private and public schools are equal as far as the basic curriculum but we want our children to have be educated in a wholesome atmosphere - not an atmosphere where it's acceptable for kids to walk around with bandanas and their pants hanging half way down their rearend. Our public schools are out of control because the boundaries are far too wide - children need narrow boundaries. When they are older then they can do as they choose. A private school education will have taught them proper values that will benefit them their entire lives. There is simply no substitute for that."

06/9/2008:
"i go to private school and i used to go to public let me tell you, there is such a difference. The work is much more challenging and learned so much. But there is alot of drama and the small classes means that there is a limited amount of people and most kids get caught up in drama that distracts them from their work. Trust me, i know. So in my opinion public schools are much better. "

06/9/2008:
"The bottom line is that kids have personalities and so do schools and you just have to find the right fit for your child based on his/her needs."

06/3/2008:
"the private schools try to justify taking your money saying they are giving you a better education. just try to get a real answer out of them about the actual test score results. good luck go public get your moneys worth"

06/2/2008:
"I have 2 kids in private school, I hate it. I went to public school, and my wife went to private school. $18,000 a year for both of them to attend private school and they dont even have a paved parking lot. Or a bus to come get them. Or, half the sports teams a public school has. Teachers in private school are not even required to have a certification or a degree on the subject they teach. You have no diversity. All rich kids. You dont learn the ropes of life in a private school. Private schools are a SHELTERED life. The children there are silver spoon fed. Hands held. Babied. You do not learn to be independent. To think that there is better education or a better future for you or your child at a private school you are wrong. You think that you are, or your children are getting more attention you are wrong. Its all up to the teacher on how well you or your child is taught. Not how much you pay."

06/2/2008:
"As a teacher for a public school and a relative of many that homeschool and are in private schools, I believe it is a matter of personal preference. Please keep in mind, No Child Left Behind is not in our control but mandated to us. It's unfortunate in many areas as it does allow less instructional time. Many of the teachers with the passion use every moment as a teachable moment. Additionally, parents will not avoid real-life issues no matter which school they attend. Give them the foundation and, parents, take a personal interest and involvement! Regardless to the funding, we are in a business together of raising a child to be educated and prepared. "

06/2/2008:
"I go to private school, and LOVE it. It's helped me grow in so many ways, but my only complaint is the small size. There are 45 kids in my whole grade, and I've known most of them since we were 4. It makes it pretty cliquey, because the friendships have been formed for so long there's not much changing. However, I don't consider myself 'popular', yet I have some amazing friends. Even so, I would recomend private school to anyone. "

06/2/2008:
"You cannot hide a child from all the evils of the world. That is a simple fact. But you can provide a child with an opportunity to feel safer and nurtured and even back up your family's moral beliefs by sending them to a private school. The 'basic' education given in a private school will place a child light years ahead of the 'basic' education given to a similar child in a public school. And by basic I mean not the advanced or remedial classes. The smaller class size assures that your child is not able to fall through the cracks or just slide by sitting in the back row and cowering. A private school education will turn out a child more likely to have an excellent grasp on the english language...one who will not send out business memos via email with mass misspellings. The old adage is you get what you pay for. Since public school education comes from the one area that every American is always trying to reduce, their taxes, what do you think it is that publically schooled ki! ds are getting? An inferior, threadbare and discounted education. "

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